Why is giving someone a second chance so hard to do.  There is something in us that says no do not let them hurt you again.  There is an intuition within us that wants to not repeat wounds that are healing, yet Jesus never stops at a second chance.  We get third, fourth, and thousands of chances with Him.  I know I am where I am today because Christ and people He put in my life gave me second chances.  Now there are some things that cannot be changed, but can be forgiven.  Please understand that forgivness is your right to give up revenge against your violater and leave them in God’s hand.  The only way we can give people their second chances is by looking at our lives and counting the chances we have received.  Let God evaluate your situation and leave your burdens on His shoulders.  This way your heart can be open to those who need a second chance. SELAH!